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February 08 Its kinda odd for me to even think about liking a virtual world but I have been enjoying Second LIfe, I got started with it because LifeChurch has it as a download available free ont heir website and most of you know thats where Tjs Sanctuary of Hope is now.
My Nic name on Second Life is Tj Pleides, so if you have downloaded Second Life, add me to your friends list, so we can hangout :)
Life Church holds virtual church services on Second Life Every Sunday I urge you to check it out, its a blast.
Love and prayers,
Tj January 27 I have closed all of the paltalk rooms I have and will no longer be using Paltalk, But if you would like information on my new Tjs Sanctuary of Hope for Women with Lifechurch.tv pls email me.
Blessings,
Tj January 11 Sunday 10:00AM GMT, 10:00AM CT, 11:30AM CT, 1:00PM CT Tuesday 12:00PM CT, 8:00PM CT
January 03
Please dont send me a bunch of spam, invites or surveys.
Love,
TJ December 31
New Year’s Reflections
Looking back on the months gone by, As a new year starts and an old one ends, We contemplate what brought us joy, And we think of our loved ones and our friends.
Recalling all the happy times, Remembering how they enriched our lives We reflect upon who really counts, As the fresh and bright new year arrives.
And when I/we ponder those who do, I/we immediately think of you.
Thanks for being one of the reasons I'll/We'll have a Happy New Year! November 18
Are There Signs That Jesus is About to Return? By Billy Graham, Tribune Media Services
Q: I'm very scared about the future, especially after all the economic turmoil we've seen in recent months. Are these signs that Jesus is about to return? I understand that things will get worse and worse just before He comes, and it looks like this is what's happening. - R.M.
A: The Bible does indicate that life will become very difficult before Christ comes again: "For then there will be great distress, unequaled from the beginning of the world until now" (Matthew 24:21).
Are we living in those days? The Bible warns us against setting dates or trying to make precise predictions, and we need to remember that the world has gone through hard times before. But the Bible does give us a number of other signs or events that must take place before Christ returns - and many of these seem evident today. For example, Jesus said that "this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in the whole world ... and then the end will come" (Matthew 24:14). Never has this been more possible than today, with satellites and the Internet making the Gospel accessible to millions around the world.
Instead of being fearful about the future, I urge you to be optimistic - because of Christ. He alone is our hope, for someday He will return to establish His perfect Kingdom of righteousness and peace. Keep your eyes on Him.
In the meantime, ask God to help you make whatever adjustments you need to during these difficult days, and to trust the future into His hands. The Bible says, "Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have" (Hebrews 13:5). This may seem hard - but it's the way of peace.
October 03
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LIVING IN THE MOMENT
I believe one of the best things we can do is to live in the moment: it does wonders when it comes to cultivating a life filled with ongoing happiness.
Taking the time to reflect and be grateful for the things we have accomplished can also have an enormous impact when it comes to lifting our moods.
I'd strongly encourage you to take breaks during the day. Take small, bite-sized breaks to ponder those happy memories that you've collected in your life.
Then, make it a point to build new ones as well. BEING REALISTIC
Let's face, though. We do "get down." I believe we need to acknowledge that reality.
People will hurt or disappoint us. Our hearts will be broken. We may have to deal with a variety of losses. Unfortunately, life is not all smiles, and I believe a part of being happy means understanding and accepting the reality of "hard times."
BEWARE OF STAYING THERE TOO LONG
We need to be aware of a danger in the acceptance process. And the danger is creating our own soap operas.
It is simply not healthy to review our own sad stories again and again -- like replaying a very sad day on one of the soaps.
When we dwell too long on the "sad things" we relinquish to them a power they were never meant to have: the power to keep our mental controls on the same channel in our minds.
I have learned that I don't want to give that kind of power to things I have no control over.
Instead, I need to remind myself that I can choose happiness.
IT'S NOT EASY!
Deciding to move forward and choosing happiness over sorrow is a tough choice. Sometimes I feel as though I'm fighting an uphill battle -- and you will too! At times we may feel that the dark clouds may never give way to the sunshine.
It is at those very moments that we have to remind ourselves of the power we do possess.
It is the power of choice.
I have discovered that somewhere in the midst of whatever chaos may surround us we can...
Choose happiness over despair, Hope over hopelessness, Joy over continual sadness, And a smile over a frown.
SO HAVE AT IT!
Practice making this choice by doing things that make you smile, as well as bring joy to others.
When you share kindness it always finds its way back to you.
May your life be filled with much happiness!
With a clear and meaningful purpose will come the motivation and the energy to follow that purpose. When you're sure of the what and the why, you'll find everything necessary to handle the how. Do you have trouble staying motivated, or keeping yourself focused, or following through on your commitments? With a compelling purpose, those troubles disappear. Are you worried and anxious about how you'll do what you need to do? With a deep sense of purpose, those worries and anxieties give way to valuable, positive ideas and effective action. There is a purpose, there is a why, that can bring every aspect of your life to higher and higher levels of performance and experience. You've glimpsed that purpose in moments of pure joy, those times when everything in life just seemed to be flowing perfectly. Dive deep into who you are and connect yourself to a purpose that is uniquely and overwhelmingly you. Seek to know and live a purpose so positive, powerful and compelling that you cannot let go of it. Already you have seen bits and pieces of that purpose at times, even if somewhat dimly. Just imagine what you could do if you were to include that powerful purpose in every moment. Imagine it, and then let yourself make it so. Your highest and best purpose is ready to be lived. Ralph Marston
October 02 How To Get Help Families caught in domestic violence need to seek help from professionals who are knowledgeable about the dynamics of domestic violence. Steps for victims. Even if a domestic violence incident occurs only once, do not minimize the action. The likelihood of violence occurring again is extremely high. First, an abused woman should find safety for herself and her children. Phone 911 when an incident occurs, or contact the Crisis Line at 503-469-8620 for counseling and referral. Second, she and the children need counseling. She should be open to grow in self-esteem, self-development, and assertiveness. Third, she needs to understand that she is not responsible for the abuser's actions. No matter how she changes her actions or tries to please him, he will not change until he wants to change. Fourth, she must recognize that she does not deserve to be abused. She is made in God's image and is worthy of respect and honor. Our Responsibility to Stop Abuse We cannot afford to bury our heads in the sand and hope that domestic violence will go away. Abuse is stopped only by intervention. All abusers, no matter how prominent or powerful, no matter how wealthy or highly educated, must be held accountable. We must work together to help victims and perpetrators find safety and healing from these abusive relationships. In so doing we will be fulfilling our mission: "to make ready a people prepared for the Lord" (Luke 1:17). Does domestic violence exist in Christian homes? Yes. But with God's help and skilled intervention, abuse can be stopped. We can live abundant lives. Excerpt from http://www.lovetakestime.com/art-domesticviolence.htmlSeptember 28
Full Original Serenity Prayer by Reinhold Niebuhr (1892-1971)
God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, Courage to change the things which should be changed, and the Wisdom to distinguish the one from the other.
Living one day at a time, Enjoying one moment at a time, Accepting hardship as a pathway to peace, Taking, as Jesus did, This sinful world as it is, Not as I would have it, Trusting that You will make all things right, If I surrender to Your will, So that I may be reasonably happy in this life, And supremely happy with You forever in the next.
Amen. September 14 Once you know God...
...then you will be excited. You will be anxious to learn more about Him and experience His companionship. The way to do this is to spend time with Him.
The quiet time you spend with God each day will become a source of inner strength and peace for you. This is the time that brings order and meaning to the rest of the day. July 10
REJOICE!
"Matthew 6:25 Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? -- Matthew 6:25
July 03
Get some rest.
One of the hardest things to do is 'take a break' without feeling guilty and selfish; or worse, feeling like a failure because everything on your 'to do' list didn't get done. Here's a news flash: there will always be more to do! One of your biggest challenges will be learning the difference between setting high standards for yourself - and setting unrealistic, impossible ones.
We claw our way to success then discover we don't like the pressures that go with it. So what should we do? Learn to walk away! Jesus did. "The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to Him all they had done… Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, He said to them, 'Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.' So they went away by themselves in a boat to a solitary place" (Mark 6:30-32 NIV). Jesus understood that if you don't take a break - you'll break!
So: (a) make a list of the things that only you can do, then delegate the rest or let them go; (b) learn to take small steps and celebrate small accomplishments for that's what life is made of; (c) don't allow the stuff that's still undone, to undo you. (d) Strive for balance; don't become addicted to what you enjoy; (e) don't allow overachievers to put you into overdrive. You're in for the long haul. You win when you pace yourself; (f) take time for the people who matter, otherwise you'll lose them. Busyness is a destroyer of relationships. All the success in the world won't compensate for the joy and treasure of your family and your loved ones! March 20
Philippians 4:13 --- I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
The road to success is not straight. There is a curve called Failure, a
loop called Confusion, speed bumps called Friends, red lights called
Enemies, caution lights called Family. You will have flats called Jobs.
But, if you have a spare called Determination, an engine called
Perseverance, insurance called Faith, a driver called Jesus, you will make
it to a place called Success.
Gethsemane Matthew 26:36-46
36Then Jesus went with his disciples to a place called Gethsemane, and he said to them, "Sit here while I go over there and pray." 37He took Peter and the two sons of Zebedee along with him, and he began to be sorrowful and troubled. 38Then he said to them, "My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death. Stay here and keep watch with me."
39Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will."
40Then he returned to his disciples and found them sleeping. "Could you men not keep watch with me for one hour?" he asked Peter. 41"Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak."
42He went away a second time and prayed, "My Father, if it is not possible for this cup to be taken away unless I drink it, may your will be done."
43When he came back, he again found them sleeping, because their eyes were heavy. 44So he left them and went away once more and prayed the third time, saying the same thing.
45Then he returned to the disciples and said to them, "Are you still sleeping and resting? Look, the hour is near, and the Son of Man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. 46Rise, let us go! Here comes my betrayer!" March 19
From Godswork Ministry Email I bring a little something to you, with our list in need of salvation in mind. The fields are white unto harvest!
We who have put our faith and trust in Jesus Christ to be our Lord and personal Savior have received a gift that will last forever. The Lord saves us from death to life and from eternal darkness and damnation to His eternal light and joy. This gift is not meant to be kept to ourselves, but is to be spread to all people sharing with them the treasures that the Lord Jesus possesses in Himself. He is the gift that we receive when we come to Him in repentance and in exchange for our sins, He gives us His forgiveness and peace that surpasses all understanding. If you know of the joy that I speak of, then it is a mandate on your life to share with others what you know in your heart is true. (Philippians 4:7-8) (Romans 10:13-15)
I hope you are both challenged and inspired by today's message to share the gospel of Jesus Christ with all those who don't know Him in truth and realize that your intervention if accepted will be appreciated for all eternity by the receiver.
JUDGMENT DAY
I was standing at the seat of judgment, waiting for my turn Thinking of the houses and the treasures I would earn Thinking of how I'd lived my life just as a Christian should Thinking of how I'd always done what was right and what was good.
I knew that when my turn would come with the Father and the Son They would look at me and my life and say to me “Well Done” I knew that I was sinless, and my life beyond reproach I got more excited as my time began to approach.
But just then I looked around and who should I see, But the lady that I worked with, just down the hall from me We always passed each other with a wave and a smile And when the time would allow we would chat for a little while We would talk about our jobs, our kids, and various little things.
Our conversations always pleasant and laughter it would bring Just then she looked up, and her teary eyes locked with mine And my smile faded when I realized she was in the other line She began to speak the words that broke my heart in two It pains me now to remember as I share these words with you.
She said “Why didn't you tell me about the God that you do know, You went to church each week but never invited me to go? You never told me of his saving mercy, that he died on the cross And now it is too late for me and my soul's eternally lost I see you saved yourself and that you are among the chosen few, But tell me, couldn't you have made an effort, to try and save me too?”
Just then I sat straight up in bed, my heart pounding in my chest Thank God it was just a dream, but my spirit still couldn't rest I realized that I couldn't keep my God a secret among friends But that I must learn to always share the hope that the gospel lends.
So I encourage you not to wait until it is too late Go and tell everyone you meet that your God is so, so great!
Author Unknown March 05
Tjs Sanctuary of Hope Schedule 7 - 9 pm central time zone, Closed on Tuesdays and Wednesdays through the fall season.
Our programs include the following:
Monday : Prayer and Meditation Morning / Joyce Meyers
Wednesday :Tjs Support Group
Thursday :Butterflys Support Group
Fridays : Wrapping up the week, talking abt next week. Your time to share about the things God is laying on your heart this week. Have you done an interesting bible study? Heard an awesome sermon? Share your notes with us.
Saturday : Bible Study
Sunday : Worship
Tjs Other Rooms:
Tjs Fellowship Hall ( male and female ) No set dates on being open at this time.
Christian Contemporary / Christian Rock Music Room only
A Refuge of Praise ( male and female ) No set dates on being open at this time.
Download Paltalk Chat, we are listed under Religion : Christian
God Bless you all.
TJ January 26 Why Do So Many Churches Have Problems and Conflicts? By Billy Graham, Tribune Media Services
Q: Why do so many churches have problems and conflicts? In our case, it comes from older members who don't want to welcome some of the new people who've moved into our area, but it could be almost anything. Why is this? -- Mrs. N.D.
A: Not all churches have problems and conflicts, of course; in my experience, most are marked by love and peace, and are far more harmonious than most secular institutions. The Bible says, "Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace" (Colossians 3:15).
Why do conflicts, however, sometimes occur in churches? There may be many reasons (at least on the surface). Whatever the immediate problem, however, the real cause is usually a failure to put Christ and His will first. Sometimes, for example, a person or a small group of people will try to control everything that takes place, instead of seeking God's will or being sensitive to the concerns of others. They have forgotten the Bible's command to "serve one another in love" (Galatians 5:13).
But there is a deeper reason why churches sometimes have conflicts. It is this: Satan knows that one of God's most effective tools is a church that is committed to Christ and is actively doing His will -- and the devil will do everything he can to block God's work and bring confusion to His people. The Bible warns, "Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour" (1 Peter 5:8).
Don't become disillusioned with your church. Instead, ask God to make you a peacemaker, and to help others catch a vision for reaching their neighborhood -- and our world -- for Christ.
Tonight I share with you a devotional from the Vine for you to ponder:
We must bear the 'burden' of being considerate of the doubts and fears of others.
In every group there's at least one difficult person. Usually these individuals have emotional hang-ups, deep insecurities, irritating mannerisms and poor social skills. God brings them into our lives for their benefit - and ours. Yes, they're an opportunity to grow in grace. Will we love them as brothers and sisters and treat them with dignity? In a real family acceptance isn't based on how smart, beautiful or talented you are; it's based on the fact that you belong to each other. "Be devoted to each other like a loving family. Excel in showing respect" (Romans 12:10 GWT). We all have quirks and annoying traits. Yes, you too! But love is not based on compatibility. The basis for our fellowship is our relationship to God; we're family!
The key is to try and understand where people are coming from. When you know what they've been through you'll be more understanding. Instead of talking about how far they still have to go, you'll realize how far they've come in spite of their hurts. Another part of showing consideration is not downplaying other people's doubts. Just because you don't fear something doesn't make it an invalid feeling!
People need a safe place to share their struggles - without being judged. And they have a right to expect confidentiality! Only in the safe environment of acceptance will people open up and share their deepest needs. Confidentiality doesn't mean keeping silent. It just means that what's shared in your group needs to stay in your group, and that your group needs to deal with it, not go out and blab about it to others.
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