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July 10 Rejoice"Matthew 6:25 Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? -- Matthew 6:25
July 03 An insert from a prayer group, I belong to. Such a BlessingGet some rest.
Mark 6:31 NIV
One of the hardest things to do is 'take a break' without feeling guilty and selfish; or worse, feeling like a failure because everything on your 'to do' list didn't get done. Here's a news flash: there will always be more to do! One of your biggest challenges will be learning the difference between setting high standards for yourself - and setting unrealistic, impossible ones. We claw our way to success then discover we don't like the pressures that go with it. So what should we do? Learn to walk away! Jesus did. "The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to Him all they had done… Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, He said to them, 'Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.' So they went away by themselves in a boat to a solitary place" (Mark 6:30-32 NIV). Jesus understood that if you don't take a break - you'll break! So: (a) make a list of the things that only you can do, then delegate the rest or let them go; (b) learn to take small steps and celebrate small accomplishments for that's what life is made of; (c) don't allow the stuff that's still undone, to undo you. (d) Strive for balance; don't become addicted to what you enjoy; (e) don't allow overachievers to put you into overdrive. You're in for the long haul. You win when you pace yourself; (f) take time for the people who matter, otherwise you'll lose them. Busyness is a destroyer of relationships. All the success in the world won't compensate for the joy and treasure of your family and your loved ones! June 19 Myspace CausesI want to talk to you about something that may surprise you if you visit my myspace page.
They allow you to list causes that are near to your heart for the benefit of your cause.
I support AIDS AWARENESS and I also support LEGALIED MARIJAUNA.
There are many things about these topics that scream out to me, as a mother I watched my oldest child suffer from the effects of AIDS and I can tell you that the only way he was able to exist with AIDS for so long was the benefit of Medical Marijuana.
I pray that you can be open minded enough to research the benefits of MEDICAL MARIJUANA and support these two causes of mine. God Bless
TJ March 20 A thought from DonnaPhilippians 4:13 --- I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
The road to success is not straight. There is a curve called Failure, a loop called Confusion, speed bumps called Friends, red lights called Enemies, caution lights called Family. You will have flats called Jobs. But, if you have a spare called Determination, an engine called Perseverance, insurance called Faith, a driver called Jesus, you will make it to a place called Success.
Gethsemene The Path to EasterGethsemane Matthew 26:36-46 36Then Jesus went with his disciples to a place called Gethsemane, and he said to them, "Sit here while I go over there and pray." 37He took Peter and the two sons of Zebedee along with him, and he began to be sorrowful and troubled. 38Then he said to them, "My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death. Stay here and keep watch with me." 39Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, "My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will." 40Then he returned to his disciples and found them sleeping. "Could you men not keep watch with me for one hour?" he asked Peter. 41"Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak." 42He went away a second time and prayed, "My Father, if it is not possible for this cup to be taken away unless I drink it, may your will be done." 43When he came back, he again found them sleeping, because their eyes were heavy. 44So he left them and went away once more and prayed the third time, saying the same thing. 45Then he returned to the disciples and said to them, "Are you still sleeping and resting? Look, the hour is near, and the Son of Man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. 46Rise, let us go! Here comes my betrayer!" March 19 Judgement DayFrom Godswork Ministry Email I bring a little something to you, with our list in need of salvation in mind. The fields are white unto harvest! We who have put our faith and trust in Jesus Christ to be our Lord and March 05 Daylight Savings TimeIn 2008, daylight time begins on March 9 and ends on November 2.
Tjs Sanctuary of Hope Schedule
Tuesday : 10 am Butterflys Support Group
Wednesday : 10 am Tjs Support Group
Thursday : 9 am Prayer and Meditation Morning / Joyce Meyers
Friday : 10 am Wrapping up the week, talking abt next week. Your time to share about the things God is laying on your heart this week. Have you done an interesting bible study? Heard an awesome sermon? Share your notes with us.
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Tjs Fellowship Hall ( male and female ) No set dates on being open at this time.
Christian Contemporary / Christian Rock Music Room only
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TJ January 26 Another post from a friend Why Do So Many Churches Have Problems and Conflicts? By Billy Graham, Tribune Media Services
Q: Why do so many churches have problems and conflicts? In our case, it comes from older members who don't want to welcome some of the new people who've moved into our area, but it could be almost anything. Why is this? -- Mrs. N.D. A post from a FriendTonight I share with you a devotional from the Vine for you to ponder:
In every group there's at least one difficult person. Usually these individuals have emotional hang-ups, deep insecurities, irritating mannerisms and poor social skills. God brings them into our lives for their benefit - and ours. Yes, they're an opportunity to grow in grace. Will we love them as brothers and sisters and treat them with dignity? In a real family acceptance isn't based on how smart, beautiful or talented you are; it's based on the fact that you belong to each other. "Be devoted to each other like a loving family. Excel in showing respect" (Romans 12:10 GWT). We all have quirks and annoying traits. Yes, you too! But love is not based on compatibility. The basis for our fellowship is our relationship to God; we're family!
The key is to try and understand where people are coming from. When you know what they've been through you'll be more understanding. Instead of talking about how far they still have to go, you'll realize how far they've come in spite of their hurts. Another part of showing consideration is not downplaying other people's doubts. Just because you don't fear something doesn't make it an invalid feeling!
People need a safe place to share their struggles - without being judged. And they have a right to expect confidentiality! Only in the safe environment of acceptance will people open up and share their deepest needs. Confidentiality doesn't mean keeping silent. It just means that what's shared in your group needs to stay in your group, and that your group needs to deal with it, not go out and blab about it to others.
January 18 Tjs Christian Connection ScheduleMonday Mornings 10 Am Central Time Zone
THis day is reserved for our own personal thoughts on the sermons, bible studies we have done this week.
Tuesday Mornings 10 Am Central Time Zone
Host : Upside Down Butterfly
Subject : Her Choice to Heal.
Dealing with post abortion recovery.
Wednesday Morning 10 Am Central Time Zone
Host : SisterTJ
Subject : Facing Abuse
Dealing with Sexual Abuse.
Thursday Mornings we open early. 9 Am Central Time Zone, gathering for prayer and meditation purposes, then worship service follows.
We believe there is healing from God, and a rock solid foundation through His word and His Way to lead our lives to seek out His perfect Will
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Gods Blessings to you.
TJ, Butterfly, Cj November 29 November 18 2007July 25 I am FibromyalgiaHI MY NAME IS FIBROMYALGIA Hi I'm fibro. Let me tell you how your body will feel when the temperature Changes, cold fronts come in, rain comes in and out, barometric pressure Changes. In other words I will make your muscles burn like they are on fire I Fibro. Will cause such horrible hard muscle spasms that it nearly twists your Body another way. Lets not forget that you will feel like you have been Beaten with a baseball bat and are bruised all over your tired body. I can also Make you feel like you have the flu when you don't. Lets not forget the Terrible itching all over the body at times. It nearly drives you crazy, how sad. One minute you can feel wonderful then I come into you with severe chronic Fatigue. You will barely be able to walk from one room to the next because of Exhaustion. Lets not forget about the migraine headaches I can cause you to have Which will send you to the ER room for pain shots. Have a nice life, Sincerely, Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome I'm an invisible Chronic Illness. I am now velcroed to you for life. Others Around you can't see me or hear me, but YOUR body feels me. I can attack you Anywhere and anyhow I please. I can cause severe pain or, if I'm in a good Mood, I can just cause you to ached all over. Remember when you and Energy ran Around together and had fun? I took Energy from you, and gave you Exhaustion. Try to have fun now! I also took Good Sleep from you and, in its place, gave You Brain Fog. I can make you tremble internally or make you feel cold or Hot when everyone else feels normal. Oh, yeah, I can make you feel anxious or Depressed, too. If you have something planned, or are looking forward to a Great day, I can take that away, too. You didn't ask for me. I chose you for Various reasons: That virus you had that you never recovered from, or that car Accident, or maybe it was the years of abuse and trauma. Well, anyway, I'm Here to stay! I hear you´re going to see a doctor who can rid of me. I'm rolling on the Floor, laughing. Just try. You will have to go to many, many doctors until you Find one who can help you effectively. You will be put on pain pills, Sleeping pills, energy pills, told you are suffering from anxiety or depression, Given a TENS unit, get massaged, told if you just sleep and exercise properly I Will go away, told to think positively, poked, prodded and MOST OF ALL, not Taken as seriously as you feel when you cry to the doctor how debilitating Life is every day. Your family, friends and coworkers will all listen to you until they just Get tired of hearing about how I make you feel, and that I'm a debilitating Disease. Some of them will say things like "Oh, you´re just having a bad day" Or "Well, remember, you can't do the things you use to do 20 YEARS ago", not Hearing that you said 20 DAYS ago. Some will start talking behind your back While you slowly feel that you are losing your dignity trying to make them Understand, especially when you are in the middle of a conversation with a "Normal" person, and can't remember what you were going to say next! I will Cause you to lose your friends too. Only the true friends will stay with you. In closing, (I was hoping that I kept this part a secret), I guess you've Already found out: the ONLY place you will get any support and understanding in Dealing with me is with OTHER People With Fibromyalgia) sometimes your family seems to understand.. ......... but they too get tired of listening to us as well. ![]() July 02 Reflections of HopeThinking about tommarrow, I can see a glimmer of who you are, what you stand for and the things that God has instilled within. Sometimes my heart breaks at the selfishness of people; We are meant to give, meant to give in stead of take, instead of destruction
Can you offer a reflection of hope for the ones that no one else cares about or are you so closed off that you dont even see the reflection yourself? Are you so selfish that you haven't considered the needs of others before your own?
God blesses those who reach out, who care enough to show the reflection of hope, who live under his protection, guided by His love and salvation.
If someone asked you today, Are you going to heaven ? Do you have the hope of the future? I encourage you to look deep into the reflection of hope and see the shining light of Jesus.
Jesus is the almighty, the hope, the reflection, the answer, Forget about that secret, Forget about the alternatives of faith, Its all about God, all about Jesus, all about the Holy Spirit.
If you are not a saved child of God, I can help you find the direction you need to look at from within, to set your feet on the path of hope, of joy, of truth and there is no Secret that you need, Its all Him
April 11 My Fellow SistersTo my sisters in the Lord..... There comes a time in every woman's life when she has to take a close look at herself. Not at her circumstance, not at what she did, not how unfair life is, or at who made you do it. She has to just look at herself in all her glory and imperfection. Have you ever admired a woman who has been through changes in her life? Or have you made up in your mind that she is just messed up. Before you make this mistake, take a closer look. A woman who has endured the most unusual life is someone of wisdom, someone who has been chosen by God to go through things that have made her stronger. Think of all the great women in the Bible: Mary Magdalene, Ruth and Naomi, the woman with an issue of blood flow, and Esther, to name a few. Mary was a prostitute, a very uneasy woman. But by the time Jesus was done with her, she was His closest follower. Esther was unfortunate in marrying an abusive man, but by the time God was done with her, she had married one of the wealthiest men in the land. Women are so quick to beat the next one down instead of trying to hold her up. Before you wonder, "What's up with her?" ask yourself, "What's up with me?" That woman could be my mother, sister, aunt, in-law, stepmother, niece, grandmother, great-grandmother, neighbor, friend, or co-worker, etc. That woman could be ME. Women are the carriers of life, not the channels of death. Let's build and encourage each other, as did Ruth and Naomi. Pass this to all the women in your life. Encourage and love, forgive and forget, and trust that the woman that receives this will be touched in some way. May the peace and love of Christ be upon you! August 04 Traveling AngelsTwo traveling angels stopped to spend the night in the home of a wealthy family. The family was rude and refused to let the angels stay in the mansion's guest room. Instead the angels were given a small space in the cold basement. As they made their bed on the hard floor, the older angel saw a hole in the wall and repaired it. When the younger angel asked why, the older angel replied, "Things aren't always what they seem." The next night the pair came to rest at the house of a very poor, but very hospitable farmer and his wife. After sharing what little food they had the couple let the angels sleep in their bed where they could have a good night's rest. When the sun came up the next morning the angels found the farmer and his wife in tears. Their only cow, whose milk had been their sole income, lay dead in the field. The younger angel was infuriated and asked the older angel how could you have let this happen? The first man had everything, yet you helped him, she accused. The second family had little but was willing to share everything, and you let the cow die. "Things aren't always what they seem," the older angel replied. "When we stayed in the basement of the mansion, I noticed there was gold stored in that hole in the wall. Since the owner was so obsessed with greed and unwilling to share his good fortune, I sealed the wall so he wouldn't find it." "Then last night as we slept in the farmers bed, the angel of death came for his wife. I gave him the cow instead. Things aren't always what they seem." Sometimes that is exactly what happens when things don't turn out the way they should. If you have faith, you just need to trust that every out come is always to your advantage. You just might not know it until some time later......... Oooo Some people ( ) come into our lives ) / and quickly go........ (_ / oooO ( ) Some people \ ( become friends \_ ) and stay awhile... leaving beautiful Oooo footprints on our ( ) hearts... ) / ( _/ oooO ( ) and we are \ ( never \_ ) quite the same because we have made a good friend!! Yesterday is history. Tomorrow a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it's called the present! I think this is special...live and savour every moment... This is not a dress rehearsal! April 20 Emergency NumbersWhen in sorrow................................call John 14
When men fail you..........................call Psalm 27 When you have sinned....................call Psalm 51 When you worry..................call Matthew 6:19-34 When you are in danger...................call Psalm 91 When God seems far away.............call Psalm 139 When your faith needs stirring......call Hebrews 11 When you are lonely and fearful0......call Psalm 23 When you grow bitter and critical....call I Corinthians 13 When you feel down and out...............call Romans 8:31 When you want peace and rest......... Matthew 11:25-30 When the world seems bigger than God.......... Psalm 90 When you want Christian assurance....... Romans 8:1-30 When you leave home for labor or travel........ Psalm 121 When your prayers grow narrow or selfish........Psalm 67 When you want courage for a task..............call Joshua 1 When you think of investments and returns... ... Mark 10 If you are depressed.................................call Psalm 27 If your pocketbook is empty.......................call Psalm 37 If you are losing confidence in people.... I Corinthians 13 If people seem unkind.................................call John 15 If discouraged about your work................call Psalm 126 If self pride/greatness takes hold..............call Psalm 19 If you want to be fruitful..............................call John 15 Understanding of Christianity...... II Corinthians 5:15-19 For a great invention/opportunity.............call Isaiah 55 For how to get along with fellow men........... Romans 12 For Paul's secret to happiness......... Colossians 3:12-17 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
ALTERNATE NUMBERS:
For dealing with fear......call Psalm 91 For security...............call Psalm 121:3
For assurance...............call Mark 8:35 For reassurance......call Psalm 145:18 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
PLEASE NOTE: Emergency numbers may be dialed direct. No operator assistance is necessary.All lines to Heaven are open 24 hours a day! Feed your FAITH, and DOUBT will starve to death March 18 In the interview by Paul Bradshaw with Rick Warren, Rick said:
People ask me, What is the purpose of life? And I respond: In a nutshell, life is preparation for eternity. We were made to last forever, and God wants us to be with Him in Heaven. One day my heart is going to stop, and that will be the end of my body-- but not the end of me. I may live 60 to 100 years on earth, but I am going to spend trillions of years in eternity. This is the warm-up act - the dress rehearsal. God wants us to practice on earth what we will do forever in eternity. We were made by God and for God, and until you figure that out, life isn't going to make sense. Life is a series of problems: Either you are in one now, you're just coming out of one, or you're getting ready to go into another one. The reason for this is that God is more interested in your character than your comfort. God is more interested in making your life holy than He is in making your life happy. We can be reasonably happy here on earth, but that's not the goal of life. The goal is to grow in character, in Christ likeness. This past year has been the greatest year of my life but also the toughest, with my wife, Kay, getting cancer. I used to think that life was hills and valleys - you go through a dark time, then you go to the mountaintop, back and forth. I don't believe that anymore. Rather than life being hills and valleys, I believe that it's kind of like two rails on a railroad track, and at all times you have something good and something bad in your life. No matter how good things are in your life, there is always something bad that needs to be worked on. And no matter how bad things are in your life, there is always something good you can thank God for. You can focus on your purposes, or you can focus on your problems. If you focus on your problems, you're going into self-centeredness, "which is my problem, my issues, my pain." But one of the easiest ways to get rid of pain is to get your focus off yourself and onto God and others. We discovered quickly that in spite of the prayers of hundreds of thousands of people, God was not going to heal Kay or make it easy for her. It has been very difficult for her, and yet God has strengthened her character, given her a ministry of helping other people, given her a testimony, drawn her closer to Him and to people. You have to learn to deal with both the good and the bad of life. Actually, sometimes learning to deal with the good is harder. For instance, this past year, all of a sudden, when the book sold 15 million copies, it made me instantly very wealthy. It also brought a lot of notoriety that I had never had to deal with before. I don't think God gives you money or notoriety for your own ego or for you to live a life of ease. So I began to ask God what He wanted me to do with this money, notoriety and influence. He gave me two different passages that helped me decide what to do, II Corinthians 9 and Psalm 72. First, in spite of all the money coming in, we would not change our lifestyle one bit. We made no major purchases. Second, about midway through last year, I stopped taking a salary from the church. Third, we set up foundations to fund an initiative we call The Peace Plan to plant churches, equip leaders, assist the poor, care for the sick, and educate the next generation. Fourth, I added up all that the church had paid me in the 24 years since I started the church, and I gave it all back. It was liberating to be able to serve God for free. We need to ask ourselves: Am I going to live for possessions? Popularity? Am I going to be driven by pressures? Guilt? Bitterness? Materialism? Or am I going to be driven by God's purposes (for my life)? When I get up in the morning, I sit on the side of my bed and say, God, if I don't get anything else done today, I want to know You more and love You better ... God didn't put me on earth just to fulfill a to-do list. He's more interested in what I am than what I do. That's why we're called human beings, not human doings. Happy moments, PRAISE GOD. Difficult moments, SEEK GOD. Quiet moments, WORSHIP GOD. Painful moments, TRUST GOD. Every moment, THANK GOD. January 16 Rules from Bill Gates, that actually make sense.Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it! Rule 2: The world won't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself. Rule 3: You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both. Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity. Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them. Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room. Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life. Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time. Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs. Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one. January 15 The Mirror of your SoulThe Mirror Of Your Soul" The mirror of my soul, once broken so long ago... I look into the pieces... only shattered images can I see... No true reflection... just destorted pictures of me... Where once was a reflection... Of what God meant to be... Now only broken images... Of the ref |